So, changing your direction, your behavior, and your mind could all be considered good things ...at times. But what should you work on first??

It depends.

Sometimes we need to do what we know is right, even if we don't feel like it.  The struggle may continue ...and it may take a while for us to overcome, but we must keep trying.

Other times, it might be best to change our mind.  It would definitely be easier.  And it also would seem to be more lasting.